Sexual Obsession

This is the age of sex. It all started in the 70's with "free love" and hippies but did not fade out with the hippies. Instead sexual obsession stayed around and infects the earth to this day as do it's results. Everyone seems to be obsessed with sex now-a-days. It's all around us. Sell out pop singers whose music isn't that great so they have to show off their bodies and be slutty to get attention. Who buys those albums? Certainly not men. Little girls buy them and coincidentally they start dressing like their sell-out role models.

We get taught sexual education in high school. I personally found it hard to pay attention with my fellow classmates criticizing the lectures and corny videos. In high school I didn't pay attention in sex ed because I was to busy pretending I knew everything there was to know about sex, even though I hadn't done it yet. Thank God I took a peer counselling class with a bunch of "dorks" that hadn't had sex yet. This enabled me to learn about the effects of sex without feeling intimidated by others who had had sex. I learned a lot in that class and as a result of it I saved myself for my b/f and long time friend.

I am dedicating this blog to those of you who need to learn, or freshen up on, the facts and results of having sex. Please use this information wisely.

Sexual Transmission

When having sex or performing sexual "favors" (e.i. oral, anal, even touching). You are dealing with bodily fluids and parts of the body that may be infected with viruses. Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD's) are now called Sexually Transmitted Infections (STI's). The reason for this change in name is because some of the viruses passed through sexual transmission are curable and therefore are called infections instead of diseases. They may be curable but if you get one you still have to go through the humiliation of getting tested and cured. These infections are passed when preforming sex or sex related tasks (some can be passed by kissing) What does this tell you? We are not supposed to be engaging in sexual activity with those whose background of sexual activity we are unsure of. Many people get sexually transmitted infections from their partners who they believe were "clean". My advise: know your partner well enough to know they're clean.

Females and Sex

Females generally do not have the ability to have orgasms when they are young. Really there is no point to having sex unless you are able to enjoy it or are trying to procreate. The first few times you have sex is painful and really not fun at all. Does this really seem like something you want to do? All you're doing is letting some guy whose only using you for your body and does not care about you in anyway take advantage of you. This goes for anything sex related as well. If you preform oral on a guy you are at risk of contracting an STI, which may be something you have to live with the rest of your life, and he is getting what he wants from you.

Be strong women. Control yourselves. You will never get respect acting like this. This only leads to being called a "slut". You are losing the ability to be respected every time you participate in sexual activities with a guy. You will be a more respectable person if you don't follow what all those other trashy girls are doing.

Sex is not that important unless you are trying to conceive. There are so many more important things in life. Like being a respectable person for instance.

STOP LETTING MEN CONTROL YOU AND BELITTLE YOU. CONTROL THEM AND BELITTLE THEM BY NOT HAVING SEX!!

P.S. No offence to all those good, sweet, nice guys out there that are FEW and FAR between!